I was thinking earlier today that I spend a lot of time making sure that I’m being a good friend, and trying to keep my friends happy, and not to upset them. But I realized that while that’s all well and good, I rarely if ever see if they’re doing the same thing for me. Are they being a good friend to me?? Do they make me happy?? Do they care if they upset me??? I think it’s healthy to think of the other side of things too.
I have come to the realization that Iam that least important friend. I am only of use to my friends when they need help. Other than that they could careless. I’m just the counselor; the one that listens to their problems.